Wednesday, June 29, 2011

The need for rules and routine


Every child is different. Every child learns in different ways.


I am all for giving them more choice and flexibility to cater to their individual preferences.


But I cannot fathom why schools allow children to do as they please, claiming that they are being "child-friendly."


When schools encourage practices that can be detrimental to development, simply because they do not want to appear "rigid", can they still be considered "child-friendly?"


I think not.

6 comments:

PaperPumpkin said...

Children "doing as they please"? What was this boy doing? In my classroom, students could sometimes choose which activity to workon, within a framework of possibilities (designed for their individual needs). I agree with you 100%.

Barbara said...

I agree with you. School is for learning, and they need to learn that they can't just do as they please - because they have to learn it sooner or later and it's much kinder to help them learn it sooner :)

Chesney said...

If kids don't learn rules from school and the family....where will they learn them? Amen! Love this post (not to mention how cute that first image is)!

RNSANE said...

"Child-friendly" in those instances sound more like "child destructiveness" to me! There is no question tht children need limits.

Victoria said...

Agree with you too. Children need structure, routine and rules and I do find everyone is happier then.

Colleen said...

I so agree, whether at school or in regards to parenting! Children need guidelines and rules for sure...how can they feel secure if they are the ones in control after all?

Have a great day today!

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